Been in this role for 9 months - enjoyable but very challenging work. Two of us, plus one line manager. LM and teammate very buddy-buddy - go to get breakfast together, make each other cups of tea etc. (I get my own brekkie and don't drink tea/coffee). I get on with my LM but find my teammate a bit difficult. She's nice enough but we're very different and don't have a lot in common so chit-chat is difficult. I also find her very passive-aggressive towards me in terms of work specific issues.
Late last year she had an early miscarriage. We were all gutted for her (just LM and I knew) and, I hope, were supportive when she came back. Just into New Year I discovered I was pregnant - an unexpected surprise. I am now 25 weeks and teammate announced recently she is also pregnant again and is 19 weeks along.
Thing is, she doesn't seem to like discussing anything pregnancy-related with me or in front of me. Am I being paranoid, or is she somehow annoyed that I am also pregnant - and slightly further along so all the maternity leave arrangements etc are coming up in relation to me and not her? Or AIBU and it's all down to her being cautious and private, given her previous miscarriage - which is understandable.
Anyone else had difficult work relationships during pregnancy? To be honest, I find her so difficult to be around that I am literally counting the days until my mat leave starts....