Hi Guys!
Sorry for the long post but it's a long story... So August last year I started a new role within my company and was told I had a 6 month probation period, which would end 14th February 2018.
I thought this was reasonable and set about doing my job. I was 21 at the time and this was a role I had never worked before, and my boss decided to give me a shot because marketing was the career I wanted to be in. I explained very clearly that I had only ever studied theory and had never actually worked in a marketing role, and he promised to support and help me learn.
So 14th Feb comes and goes and I had nothing from my employer about passing or failing my probation. Naturally, I assumed I had passed and kept going about my business.
There was a small amount of time where I was very sick with constant UTI's and infections and was admitted into hospital, plus my MC in December last year (which I only took 1 day off for, btw!). When I returned in January, I'd had a return to work interview where my boss expressed his concerns. I took all of these on board and had no further time off.
Until recently, that is. nearly 2 weeks ago, I told him I was 6 weeks pg as I had been advised by mw to get a good support system in case things went wrong again and I considered him my friend and my boss, so I wanted to share the news. The following week I was admitted to hospital again following some severe bleeding (nothing to worry about, thank god) but advised to have bed rest until the bleeding stopped.
I actually went back on the Monday, despite still bleeding but I was acutely aware of the previous conversation we had. I had another return to work where he again expressed his concerns. I told him I take those concerns on board but he wasn't actually allowed to count my pregnancy related sickness (included the mc in december) into any HR decisions.
Well monday (30th April) I finally had a review meeting scheduled, something he was doing with every member of the department. I wasn't concerned too much as I know I have produced some good work since being there and had self-taught a lot of things. He had even praised me for my work when I had been left in the department on my own for a week.
So this meeting goes down and he tells me I have failed my probationary period and they would not be offering me a permanent role. Naturally, I was devastated. He went on to cite that my work was of poor quality, I was googling things that were personal (a common practice in the business) and this counted as gross negligence and I had taken too many sick days (although I never actually exhausted my 5 sick days per year).
Bear in mind that the head of HR has taken more sick days in the first 4 months of this year than I have in the entire 3.5 years I was working for the company and she had had no consequences, and a colleague had sent 4000 (!) personal emails in a day and only received a final, written warning.
I just find this all very convenient, and I genuinely believe I have been wronged by my employer, and someone I considered a friend.
I just want someone elses opinion on this as my fiancee and family are urging me to take this to tribunal, but I don't want to go through all this stress without actually gaining anything at the end. I am only looking for acknowledgement that I was wronged and to be paid for the full 1 calendar month notice period I am entitled to (he told me he would only pay me for a week).
Oh and I'm not entitled to full employment benefits as I have only been continuously employed for 1 year.
Thanks in advance and sorry again for the long post!