Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Work

Chat with other users about all things related to working life on our Work forum.

Return to work was a disaster !!!

5 replies

deansmum · 08/03/2018 19:13

I recently returned to what should have been a dream job after taking time out to look after family. My old boss looked me up and offered me a brilliant 6 month job with brill money - sounded ideal and seemed to match my skills LOL !!!! I knew on my first day something was not right - the other staff had already made their mind up about me and viewed me with suspicion. I put it down to nerves but they were so unhelpful and did not speak to me or help me if they could help it. Spoke to my boss after 8 weeks and she said I was being over-sensitive !! Duly noted and I plodded on ...... it got slowly worse until I was subjected to a vicious verbal attack by the resident 'bully' who I really did think would physically attack me. Anyway, I have walked away - I was so shocked at what I had encountered. My boss offered to change my role so I wouldn't have to deal with the bully which shocked me - they should have dealt with the bully first, but that was just the latest in a string of incidents which left me feeling uneasy. All in all, it was a disaster. I am heartbroken it has ended this way - I have been out of the workforce (except for voluntary work) for 8 years - is it really that toxic and dog eat dog out there now, because if it is, I do not fit in there anymore ........................

OP posts:
ssd · 08/03/2018 19:17

don't give up, hopefully the next place will be better

Bb8isgreat · 08/03/2018 19:18

You poor thing that sounds awful! No it's not all like that, I've just returned to work after being at home with the family for years too and I'm working in a lovely caring supportive encouraging team. Don't let this knock you down and put you off working, keep looking nice places do exist 😀

deansmum · 08/03/2018 22:14

Thanks for your replies - I won't lie, my confidence has took a knock but I will pull myself up from my toes and get back out there !!!!

OP posts:
BettyBaggins · 08/03/2018 22:26

Keep going, experienced very similar, there are good places too, keep looking and dont let the buggers grind you down, they fear for being shown shit by someone with experience Flowers

longestlurkerever · 08/03/2018 22:30

It's international women''s day and I'm feeling quite positive about my workplace (civil service,) after they gave me the morning off to go and talk to school children in Tottenham about their career aspirations. Felt quite privileged to work in a job I care about but also be supported to take the time to do broader good. Your workplace sounds terrible but please don't think everywhere is like that.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread