Hi guys, this must be the first time I’ve ever posted on a forum, I hope there are some mums out there for some friendly advice.
I’m currently 25 weeks pregnant (unplanned) and have worked in the contracting industry for the last 6 years, with a very good rate of pay. My contract ended recently, since I’ve found out I’m pregnant with my first child, and I’ve struggled to find another contract since. I’m now, so I believe, bound to tell any future employers I’m pregnant and have found this is really starting to impact my ability to gain work (even though everyone I have spoken to says it doesn’t...it does)! I’ve never claimed benefits and have enjoyed my career for over 15 years. I’ve recently signed up for JSA against my will really, as my savings have dried up whilst I’ve been out of work, and am now becoming pretty anxious I won’t find a job, and will need to claim benefits when I have the baby. I do not judge people who do this is anyway, so please don’t think that is the case, I am simply coming to the realisation of the adjustments I may need to make. If this will be the case, I’m just looking for some advice as to whether it is realistic to support a child for the first few months simply on benefits without a partner? Money is very tight now and for the first time debts are starting to build. I also have a mortgage and of course all household bills to pay. I don’t even know what I am entitled to. I will also look to go back to work as soon as I can after giving birth, hopefully my mum will look after the baby, is it realistic I will be able to express and breastfeed for at least a year? Breast Feeding does mean an awful lot to me, and I wish to do anything I can to do this. Please, any guidance much appreciated, anxiety kicking in is probably an understatement! Sorry for the long post x