So forgive me for sounding bitter, but I really need a safe place to express my utter disappointment and disgust at my ongoing situation and the lack of support I'm receiving.
I am currently 7 months into maternity leave and in early concilliation with my employer who sent me a random letter of dismissal 2 days before Christmas, due to my job being deemed surplus to current requirements of the business. There was no prior warning, no right to appeal, and no redundancy process, despite there being 3 members of staff performing my role within the company, one of which was employed permanantly to cover my role.
I have been told on numerous occasions that I have a case because there should have been a fair redundancy process including all 4 members of staff. Yes I agree. However everybody is failing to State the obvious that they should never have hired somebody permanantly to cover my role, they should have been maternity cover. And thus there would be no need for a redundancy!
Because I cannot afford legal advice since I am now without an income and do not know when I will next receive any, I have gone back and forth searching for advice. I have literally been sent packing from a citizens advice office because they do not have the funding for employment issues and thought it was a really funny matter that I stupidly might think so. I have been told by law schools and University helplines that they cannot provide me the help I need because they do not cover my postcode.
After speaking to a few solicitors who offer initial advice I have been told that a realistic compensatory figure would be around 20k, 10k being for loss of earnings and 10k being for injury to feelings, an amount which is based at the lower end of the vento scale for somebody who has lost my job. When seeking advice for a reasonable settlement offer without going to court I was told that I had to be realistic and "fair". "You are taking about suing a company" this woman said. "That's a big deal".
This quite frankly appalled me. Honestly aside from my concern over my lack of income money really doesn't concern me. I have no idea how to negotiate or at what point I say no and risk going to court and losing. I am a sufferer from depression and anxiety which has increased greatly due to this.
"Be reasonable and then you will save yourself all the distress of going to court and representating yourself" I have been told. Which is an appealing idea when I consider how this may affect me emotionally, and even then I may not win.
But why should I? Why should I be reasonable? The compensation that may be very necessary and deserve considering my situation is a drop in the ocean to them. However god knows how long without an income could have dire consequences for myself and my family. Along with the severe stress and fear of this case, and the fact that this will remain with me for the rest of my life, unlike them who will shrug it off. In the meantime it is myself and my daughter who are suffering, I'm stressed every day thinking about this, it is rubbing off on her, and I don't have the energy to give her that I should have.
And what is reasonable? Is 6 months salary reasonable when you could be out of work for years? Is that reasonable for all the hurt and the stress caused? And at what point do I say, no let's throw it away and risk gaining nothing at court? Not one person will comment on the strength of my case.
What has appalled me the most is that out of 10 or more advisers I have explained my situation to only one person has said they are sorry I have been put through it. The rest unfortunately have treat me as if I am out for something, pushing my luck and as if I'm making it out to be a big deal. It is a big deal. And no matter what I won't back down. It's a wonder how many women do.
How very sad.