Thanks Daisychain. This is all very outing if anyone knows me irl so I need to be careful.
The redeployment/redundancy is all a bit shakey legally but I was OK with this route.
I was redeployed before they looked at capability proceedings. Again, capability was all very shakey because they didn't follow the procedures. It's very he said/she said. Nothing formal so they can't acknowledge it really.
Redeployment was due to a breakdown in communication with my manager. I can't say much but I was happy to be redeployed.
I think realistically capability did play a part in the redeployment but they can't say that as they didn't start/record anything formally.
I guess on that same vein I can't use it as reason to refuse the higher grade. There is nothing formal.
They told me about the possible job this morning and wanted me to confirm it then. I wouldn't. They want my answer by tomorrow lunch. I guess that's because I'm meant to be leaving in a few days.
Everything was verbal. I wasn't expecting this so didn't ask what I should have done. I've asked for everything we discussed in writing by end of today but not sure I'll get it.
I know the suggested team and I wouldn't be opposed to working for them in another capacity but honestly, my confidence has gone and the thought of going into the same type of role terrifies me.
I do have another job to go to after my redundancy period ends. If I didn't I would go for the trial period and suck it up for the reasons you say but the problem is that I doubt I'll pass the trial period, it will really cause me personal health issues and I'll lose out on the job I have lined up.
I've been there longer than 2 years.
The time between my last day and my start date for the job I have lined up is so tight. I can't afford anything to "stop the clock" on my redundancy period.