This could be an essay, sorry.
I started a new job mid-August. They are a nice company, who seem to care about their employee's wellbeing.
I've found it really tough being a newbie again after 6 years at my previous job, learning about the clients and our internal processes alongside actually having to do the work. The workload is huge most days and I'm having to put in about a day's worth of overtime each week just to keep up (I'm employed for 4 days a week).
Anyway, to get to the point. When I started I was told I'd be working on 4 client accounts. I currently have 3 of them and, as mentioned above, am doing a shitload of overtime as it is. Early last week it came up in conversation that a meeting should be arranged for me to meet the 4th client soon, together with 'Jane' (not her real name) who has been keeping the account ticking over.
I spoke to one of the directors a few days ago about the hours I'm putting in, and expressed my concern over how I was supposed to find time to fit in another client. He said "We'll probably just leave it with Jane then". Jane is strictly speaking one of our creatives rather than a client account handler, but the account is quite small so she fits it in. Yesterday I worked a half day (5 & a half hours instead of the 4 it's supposed to be) and in the afternoon I was copied in on an email from Jane, who is aware of my workload issues, to the client telling them I'm going to be taking over x, y and z on the account. She didn't discuss this with me first. She also sent me a calendar invite to have a handover of the account on Monday morning, as well as an email about it.
Just for context, Jane will moan about how busy she is but she starts work at 9.30 and finishes bang on 5.30 every single day. This is of course how it should be in an ideal world, but is very rare in a creative industry.
I forwarded Jane's email to the director I'd spoken to the other day and asked to discuss it on Tuesday when he's back in, reiterating my concern about my capacity to take on more work.
I suppose I'm looking for advice on how to get my point across to him calmly and succinctly. I don't like letting people down, and I know I need to be careful to make this about my workload, rather than my emotions, or what the lazy cow Jane does or doesn't do. Truth is I'm exhausted and stressed, sick of hardly seeing my son, and pissed off that someone who does the bare minimum is trying to offload work to me when she knows I don't have the time to do it.