I really need some advice but it's a sensitive matter :(
Sorry it's a bit long winded.
I was told I was being made redundant while on maternity. I'm not disputing this and have dealt with it - but the stakes are high as a month before being told we bought our forever home and now have a large mortgage. I was until redundancy the main bread winner.
So I've been applying for jobs. A million jobs. There's a big firm near me that is hiring lots of people in my line of work. Recently I applied online for a senior role and was rejected instantly. I did my best to find out why I was rejected but to no avail. I then found a friend of a friend at that firm that put my cv forward for a similar but junior role. I was interviewed and offered the job. I was also told by the internal recruiter that I was rejected for the senior one as i asked for more money than was advertised (I'd asked for 5k over what I was on - wrongly assuming we'd negotiate and I'd maybe end up on what I was on now)
I accepted the junior job offer despite it being 10k under what I am on now (on the grounds that beggars can't be choosers). And last night I saw that the more senior role is STILL being advertised on a job site.
Mumsnetters please give me some advice - can I ask why I'm not being put up for that role? Can I ask if I still can be put for it on the understanding that I'll take whatever money was available? Can I reapply for it? I'm worried that if I rock the boat I'd lose it all. I've not yet signed a contract so there is everything to play for.
I'm not greedy I just want to protect my home and my baby's future.