I applied for time off for this coming Friday as my grandads ready for burial (we have already had the funeral 8 weeks ago) but now his plot and ashes are ready he will be being scattered and the urn buried and tree planted this Friday.
Work have refused me time off for this - surely this comes under compassionate leave or something? Theres not a chance on this earth I'll be missing it and not being there to support my nan.
Second less important issue is. I changed my hours back in March and went onto a different day set. So currently do 3 12 hour days and a 15 hour shift on a sunday and should have been paid a salary of 40 hours per week.
Instead since this conversation they've been paying me a 30 hour contract. This is still not resolved after 7 weeks - how can I make them sort this out faster?
And 3rdly, I did apply to drop my sunday shift and expect the salary drop to come with this, but was completely refused I was basically told I have to do 40 hours a week or cut down to part time 20 hours a week, but am still expected to do atleast the 15 hour shift + 2 12 hour shifts on a 20 hour contract (should i accept and go down to part time)
For what it's worth I work in the care industry, I adore my job and am very lucky to have an employer that pays a salary rather than 0 hours. I do not want to leave but I do want to know where I stand with all this.
I'm dreadfully unhappy at the moment I'm just not getting enough time at home with my son anymore. I wish I never changed my hours in the first place but thought the salary increase would be useful but they've not paid me it yet and so I've seen no difference and refusing me Friday off is just kind of tipping me over the edge and I'm ready to lose my shit with them.
Any advice?