I’m currently employed by a big broadband company and have been off sick for the past 8 months. It’s quite complicated, but basically lots of conflict with my manager and constantly feeling victimised made me a bit ill. As soon as I produced a doctor’s note stating that I was suffering from depression and anxiety issues, it all escalated massively. I was harassed daily and it made things worse and worse. It even persisted after my doctor wrote to him to explain the negative impact their actions were having on me.
Now, I’m finally feeling like I’m ready to work, but I know I can’t go back to the same place. The thought of putting myself in that stressful situation with the people who put me through hell will probably just push me right back to square one. I’m worried about the implications that my time off will have on finding a new job though. If I’m asked about my time off, there’s no way any employer is going to consider me. So, I’m just hoping I don’t get asked about it. I know I’m fine to start a new job, but a new company will probably see me as too risky.
How common is it to be required to answer questions about previous illness and fill in occupational health forms that request things like sickness days? I’m not sure if this is only standard in certain industries.
If I use a manager at my current place of employment as a reference, and a new company contact him to ask for a reference, are the company also likely to contact the HR department of my current employer for additional information, such as proof of employment or absence history?
It’s not my intention to deceive anyone, I’m just thinking if I get lucky and they don’t ask about my sickness and they don’t ask my reference, am I in the clear? Or is it also standard practice to contact HR to request general employment information? It’s difficult because I’m having to move house too, so if I find a job and arrange the move to a new area, and everything seems fine, I don’t know if I’ll be able to put my mind at ease or if there’s still a chance of my absence coming back and biting me in the ass and I end up in a new place and unemployed. I just feel totally stuck as I can’t commit to moving until I’ve found the job, but then there’s a chance it could be taken away (sorry for the essay).