Without giving too much details or examples as this could be identifying. I got a new manager and she bought lots of friends and family to said company. I am/ was in a senior position and basically for several months now I have been horribly bullied ans I hate work now, it's unbearable. The bullying is mainly in private one on one and I have no real concrete evidence of this. The 'old' staff as there is now a massive divide have observed a lot of bitching about me and they themselves have told me they feel uncomfortable about it all, but they wouldn't come forward as they don't want to be next even though they feel new manager is putting her new staff above us and letting them 'get away' with things that are very inappropriate, this is all sounding very immature.
I approached the owner of the company about my senior shifts being taken off me in that I was working all my hours in the senior role and now only a 1/4 and the rest basically demoted but same pay apparently. Owner said manager was in her rights to do that but he could ask her why etc. But I spoke to her myself putting my big girl pants on and manager was very defensive that it's not personal even when I gave her clear examples of how I was being treated differently she had an excuse for them all.
So I had an interview for another job/company and have been offered it subject to pre employment checks. I have put the owner down as a reference but I am worried they will give me a bad one with all that's been going on. Where do I stand on this? Sorry it's long i don't really talk to anyone outside of work about this as I don't want to give them any ammunition whatsoever I just silently accept the abuse as justifying myself seems to have made it worse :(