Hello, following me whistleblowing at work and then suffering ill treatment by management I resigned from my job! I have entered early conciliation through acas and my ex employer is keen to settle, not because they accept any wrong doing but because they prefer not to go to ET(this is what they told acas) I started with a sum and have so far reduced my offer as they have increased theirs. There is a margin between us and I was considering asking them to meet in the middle, or do i just continue to reduce until I have reduced to my absolute minimum? I'm finding this process quite stressful in itself and dread the thought of ET! Can anybody help please?