I have worked in my current position for 10 years for a massive global telecomms company. I am going to retrain to be a nurse and will start my full time course in September. I only have to give a month's notice. A few months ago one of my team members left, and a restructuring of roles was being considered. I told my manager that I planned to leave in September (if I got the right class of degree) so they would be prepared and could plan for a proper restructuring before replacing me.
Whenever my leaving is brought up I always say that it's only going to happen if I get the right degree, and I haven't told anyone officially in writing.
My manager asked my yesterday for my job description so they could start the process of getting my replacement lined up. I haven't actually given my notice in though and we are hoping to move house before I leave and I'm worried that this will all have a negative impact on my mortgage application.
Have I been stupid? I was just trying to help them out really, but I wonder if I have shot myself in the foot.
What do you think I should do?