I can't take a pay cut at the moment - I'm the breadwinner in my household and it would be selfish to do so, money is also really tight so it would also be foolish.
But I can't stop thinking about this job. It's in a sector I'd really like to work in, probably less prospects but much more rewarding work. I think I'm a really good fit for the role - I think if I applied for it I'd get an interview (I quite possibly wouldn't - but let's assume for now that I would).
I assume that if a company publishes the salary band, they won't go above it?
To complicate matters further, I also only want to work 4 days a week, as I'm about to return to work after maternity leave. There's no way they would go for paying me more for my full time equivalent salary, but actually paying me only 4/5ths of it to work 4 days a week? If they thought I was the best candidate?
Should I :
a) forget about the job (I'm sure this is what I should do!)
b) contact them, explain the situation and see what they say (they think I'm an idiot for even asking, and say no)
c) apply for the job, and ask for more money and part time working at interview / when offered job? (they are annoyed at me for wasting their time, and say no)
I'm sure I'm just kidding myself that they might pay me more money to do this job - but I just thought I'd check what Mumsnet thought!