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Feel like my career is wrecked after depression - advice welcome!

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LightFitting · 06/10/2015 18:39

NCed for this. Also not sure if this rightfully belongs in Mental Health, but am really hoping that a career-adviser-in-shining -armour will happen past.

I trained as a teacher 4 years ago, and fell quite ill with depression mid-way through the course. I had to re-take a placement because I'd had so much time off, and qualified six months after the rest of my cohort.

I have never been able to get a permanent teaching post since. I have started my Induction - managed to complete one term of it while on long-term supply - but not completed it. I did supply for 18 months while still struggling with depression and anxiety and now work as a part-time TA. I'd like to do so much more - in terms of hours and level of challenge - but I can't seem to persuade anyone to give me a job. I have applied for teaching jobs in non-school situations too, but no joy.

Basically, my CV is a total mess. I'm well into my 30s so applying for anything entry-level gets raised eyebrows. I don't have any way of glossing over the delay in my initial qualification. I can't conceal my history of MH issues from any future employers and I strongly feel that there is no way a head teacher would hire me if they know about the depression, as there is such a strong likelihood of becoming ill again in the future.

With this in mind, I've tried to set up as a private tutor but haven't had much luck getting any clients. I feel like despite trying over and over again I just can't seem to get my career started. Someone elsewhere posted a link to a MIND course about helping people get back into work but my local Mind doesn't offer it.

My DH is v supportive but not earning enough to pay my own way is really getting me down, especially now that I feel well enough to.

Advice appreciated x

OP posts:
jclm · 11/10/2015 14:09

Speak to a careers advisor. It might be that in your area there are very few teaching vacancies anyway. Would you consider retraining? Teaching is a good platform for other professions eg social work or speech therapy etc.

hangingoutattheendofmywick · 11/10/2015 14:42

I have left 3 good teaching jobs due to anxiety / depression. After 12 years trying ... I can't do it anymore and realise that with my personality teaching is the worst possible job for me. So I've decided to knock it on the head when I return to work when child is of school age and go for an office based job in an education sector.
That said - I think it's getting that lucky break - I have had two bosses who not only understood and were amazing - but also had battled depression too so were very willing to give me a chance. I would say go through an agency (temp) where you can get your foot in the door... Then show them what you're made of! And you might just get that lucky break like I did. You say there's no way of glossing over your cv or not divulging all this ... But I think there is always a way to make things look much better. Get someone else to look at your Cv and tweak it - you don't have to tell them everything and there are very inventive ways of making up for lost months : years of work or short contracts.
For example - gaps in my cv are filled with "exam marking" true and "home tuition" not strictly a lie ... But can be vague about the details. Also I've stuck "traveling" in my younger years. What type of teaching do you do?

Floppy5885 · 11/10/2015 14:50

Have you thought about teaching in different settings? So maybe an Eco or environmental centre? Or with SEN young adults learning maths/English skills? Or evening courses at college?

Floppy5885 · 11/10/2015 14:54

What about be becoming an NVQ assessor

hangingoutattheendofmywick · 11/10/2015 15:03

Yes to Floppy (lol) and also try ESOL teaching! You can go on a course to do that which will really improve your confidence and open new doors. They do them abroad - last a month! Highly recommend. Look up TEFL courses.

hangingoutattheendofmywick · 11/10/2015 15:07

Also think about transferable skills - you could work for a teaching agency in recruitment. Exam marking. Volunteer agency support worker. Skills for life teaching assistant for all sorts of vocational settings. Exam moderator. Exam writer. Invigilator. Counsellor for schools / colleges. Career advisor for school / colleges. Support of some type in a school / college. Attendance monitor etc. There are lots of jobs in education not necessarily teaching. Which might draw on your experience of MH.

Twowrongsdontmakearight · 11/10/2015 15:27

Is teaching really the best choice for you? Having been a TA for a few years I started a PGCE and found teaching proper incredibly stressful. I've never suffered depression or had any MH issues but teaching was too much pressure for me - it must be a nightmare with depression. You are 'on stage' all day with little time for planning etc. that has to take place in your own time.

I'm now doing something completely different and I can tell you the relief I feel! Letting go of teaching was difficult because I had been trying to get into it for so long and had been convinced that was what I wanted.

Why don't you have a look to see if there are other things you could do that use your skills but don't need you to deal with the kind of pressure?

Floppy5885 · 11/10/2015 15:29

I think teaching itself is stressful but other related jobs much less so

Twowrongsdontmakearight · 11/10/2015 15:31

Oops! Started a while ago and have xposted!

hangingoutattheendofmywick · 11/10/2015 17:34

I agree with twowrongs - I need to let go of teaching. My personality type is a complete perfectionist who has to be the best at everything. I care far too much about what people think of me - and I must be liked. Teaching is basically the worst possible career for me and I have suffered with depression and anxiety the entire time. Sometimes I'm on top of it.... But when I'm not I just fall apart. It's taken me a long time to be able to walk away from it - because I so so wanted to be a teacher and know I'm good at it when I'm up high. Having my children showed me that I'm killing myself - for a small wage anyway. So just need to let it go. My partner has a 9-5 office role and never suffers stress, leaves it at 5pm, no weekends and will be making more than me in a few years. He also has much more security than I ever have with teaching.

Twowrongsdontmakearight · 11/10/2015 19:16

Good luck hangingout. In a few years when you're settled in a new role in which you can be perfect without it taking over your life, you'll look back and be glad you made the change. Flowers for you !

hangingoutattheendofmywick · 11/10/2015 21:55

Aw thank you!! I can't wait to get back to work.

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