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Interview dilemma

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bloomingheather · 20/09/2015 20:39

I recently applied for a new job in a field that I used to work in (and still do privately). I now teach but for various reasons think I would be much happier doing what I used to do. A recent opportunity has arisen in a post that I would really like to do. I feel I would be much more suited to this post, good at it and also would stand a better chance of being promoted in the long term. I've never really felt completely at home teaching and sometime feel that all the skills and training I have from my previous career are a bit wasted or at least poorly understood where I am just now.

I applied for the new post and was lucky to get an interview. However, I have a bit of a dilemma about getting time off for it. I will need the whole morning off work. We are very short staffed at the moment. I really don't want to have to tell my boss in advance that I have an interview, as I don't think it will be received well and if I don't get it, it will potentially be very difficult. My only other options are to ask for the time to be changed (I have e-mailed asking this but haven't heard back yet) or making up a fictional appointment or illness, so lying. I would feel very uncomfortable doing this and don't want to leave on bad terms if I do get the post, but if the time can't be changed, I may have to do this. I am trying to weigh up what would be the 'best' option - tell my boss that I have an interview for a post in my 'old' career and risk things being made very awkward for me afterwards if I don't get it, or invent an appointment and hope that they understand when I explain and that I don't leave on bad terms. What do people think? I've been agonising over it for days and have lost objectivity slightly!

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Doje · 20/09/2015 20:45

Could you take the morning as holiday? Say you need it to pick someone up from the airport, do a favour for your gran or something they can't say no to.

I can't do the lying thing (on the day of) an interview. It's much un-needed stress on top of a stressful thing!

Optimist1 · 20/09/2015 20:48

I think your reluctance to lie to your current boss is admirable. Hopefully the potential new employers will understand that your current teaching post makes interviews during the working day impossible without some sort of subterfuge which doesn't sit well with you. It speaks volumes for you as an employee! Good luck - fingers crossed that they offer an interview at a time that you can make.

wickedwaterwitch · 20/09/2015 20:48

Can you book leave?

addictedtosugar · 20/09/2015 20:55

Would you get away with needing a morning off for personal reasons?

JimmyGreavesMoustache · 20/09/2015 20:58

i tend to find that i need to see my dentist rather urgently

  • I'm still using leave, so don;t feel like I'm pulling a sickie, but it would be harsh boss who'd turn down leave for urgent dental work, however short staffed they might be.
bloomingheather · 20/09/2015 20:58

Doje i totally agree - I've to do a presentation for this and the interview will last an hour - worrying about lying is just adding to the stress! I can't take leave as that's not normally allowed unless in exceptional circumstances (i.e. family bereavement or a close relative's wedding etc.) Thanks Optimist1 too - I hope they can change the date for me, although I know that'll be a pain for them.

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bloomingheather · 20/09/2015 21:01

Jimmy that is plan B! It was the only way I could think of to get leave without a hospital letter (which they would normally expect to see). I'm just worried that if I do get it, I'll probably find out on the same day or next day so when I tell my boss, she'll probably realise I wasn't actually at the dentist.

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Haffdonga · 20/09/2015 21:13

I guess she can't book leave or take time off if she's a school teacher. Teachers just don't.

OP in this case my gut feeling would be to lie (Bad BAD Haffdonga) but actually your gut feeling to tell the truth is the right one. If you get the job you'll have to fess up that you were lying about the interview anyway. If you don't get the job you may want to apply for others in the future and a string of random mystery illnesses look bad especially when it comes to references.

Besides, telling lies is hard and shitty. The truth is so much easier to cope with.

Back story - when I was a teacher I lied once and invented a funeral to get out of a staff meeting in order to take a free holiday I'd won. You caguess what happened. Karma got me. Just don't lie.

Optimist1 · 21/09/2015 08:07

A word of warning about the emergency dental appointment - if you do this I suspect that Karma will work its magic and all your teeth will fall out. Sad

moab · 22/09/2015 21:33

I'm a teacher and in my contract it says we can have up to three days off per year for job interviews. It doesn't say it has to be in the same industry too

bloomingheather · 22/09/2015 22:56

Thanks moab - that's interesting. I haven't looked at my contract, but I think it will say similar. I managed to get the interview changed to a better time thankfully. I will still need some time off but not as much as before as it is at a 'better' time. It won't stop the anxious palpitations though Confused

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moab · 25/09/2015 21:11

Good luck. Hope it went well!

bloomingheather · 26/09/2015 18:44

Thanks moab. It's next Friday. Will let you know how I get on!

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