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Am I Mad?

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mumma00sheila · 07/03/2015 11:41

Hello,

After any advice on coping with too much to do in too little time!

I am about to go back to full time work after being part time for 18 months. I have a two year old, and I also run my own small business, making and designing products, which I sell on line.

I have had to make the decision to return to full time work, as my partners job is not paying enough, and we are struggling financially. Although, my business is steadily picking up, it is still a bit off being able to support us financially.

At the moment, I work 20 hours a week, and spend the rest of the week, looking after my child, and making like mad to complete all my orders, plus keeping my website up to date, and creating new products. I also try to squeeze in some house work, but feel like the house is becoming a bit of a state, as I don't ever have time for a proper clean. Most my spare time is spent washing, cooking and doing the dishes.

What I am worried about is how I am going to balance working full time, with a growing business, and a family and house to care for? I already have no spare time for fun! I really only plan on working full time for 18 months, by which time I hope to have my business going well enough that I can quit work, and finally fulfil my dream of having my own business, and being able to work for my self. This is how I am mentally preparing myself for the year ahead, with my eye reward at the end.

Is it doable? I will also miss my little girl, am can't help beating myself up over the fact that I will become very busy, and may not have enough time for her.

Any advice from anyone else who has done this would be much appreciated.

OP posts:
addictedtosugar · 07/03/2015 11:57

I don't have a home business, but both of us work FT.
I imagine your daughter will be in childcare for the extra hours your working? So the thing that is going to reduce is time with your little girl.
The house and food become easier, as you are around for less time.
Is there any spare money to pay a cleaner? That is my lifesaver. Well, that and online shopping. Not supermarket shopping for me - tesco is half a mile away, so actually quicker to go and shop than wait in for an hour, but online birthday presents, bulk birthday cards for kids and generic friends - very close people do get one specially chosen. Basically, making as much as possible fit into already scheduled trips, rather than "Oh heck, I need to go to card shop" and three days later "Oh heck, need present for party next week"

One other thought - would work, either yours of DP's be able to compress your hours, so you work an extra hour a day, to get every other friday off, or similar. That would give you a day at home to either do chores, or deal with your business?

DP also needs to pull his weight. We split by who is best at each activity.

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