Hi Ladies.
I am nearly 35 and have a 4 yr old and 2 yr old. In Dec my husband and I decided to try for a third baby. My current full time job is not great but my plan was to sit tight as the title is good and I knew it would in time lead to a better paid job in another company.
Anyway fast forward a month and around the same time as I got my negative pregnancy test I was headhunted for an amazing job with double my salary that would really help me cement my career and create more security for my family. I am the only candidate at the final stage in the interview process and on the verge of getting the job.
So lets say I get the job.... I cant shake the feeling of wanting a 3rd baby but obviously I wouldn't try for at least a year.- and even then I would feel guilty but I am already torn which might sound ridiculous!!! I really want to try for a third baby but I know this job is a once off opportunity. I also don't want to regret decisions I make now in the future as Im nearly 35 and my biological clock is ticking.
There is no guarantee I could get pregnant again - or get pregnant straight away. So how soon would you try for a baby in a new job that is an amazing opportunity?
Thanks so much :)