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I dread going to work each day but need to change my mindset

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Kernowgal · 12/10/2014 17:30

I'm bored and frustrated at work. I've had a few interviews for other jobs but they've not been quite right for me or I haven't been right for them. I spend my weeks looking forward to the weekend, and when Sunday evening comes around I feel miserable.

I've been feeling underworked for a while, plus I would like to move up into a more managerial role, and so I spoke to our area manager to see if there were any opportunities for me to take on more responsibility. He came up with some that sounded interesting, but they have since been watered down or vetoed by my boss and others have said they want to get involved with the same project, when really it needs to be one person doing the organising, otherwise it will get very confused.

My boss is hopelessly disorganised and we spend our weeks firefighting, never planning ahead. I am so fed up with it, and any suggestions to improve our working practices or become more efficient are met with outright refusal or vague agreements that never become reality.

I feel like I'm banging my head against a wall and it is really getting me down. I spend my days mostly bored and counting the hours till home time, while my boss sits in the office, leaving me and my colleagues to find enough work to keep the junior members of staff going. We already barely have enough to keep us going.

I'm on every job site I can think of, my CV is up to date, but this time of year is traditionally rubbish for jobhunting in my industry. How do I keep myself going until the spring when the job market will wake up again?

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LapsedTwentysomething · 12/10/2014 19:52

Is studying a possibility? Something that you can add to your cv to make you a great prospect the next time something does come up? While considering a career change I've come across plenty of distance learning providers.

Kernowgal · 12/10/2014 21:53

Thanks for replying!

I changed career a couple of years back and have already studied to degree level. There is a masters I could do but I can't afford to at the moment.

I used to work in a very fast-paced industry and I find the much slower pace here really doesn't suit me. This would change if I moved up into a more senior role, but there is a dearth of them at the moment.

I also thrive on learning new things, and I've plateaued in this role despite only being here for a year. My colleagues aren't at all ambitious and are happy with the status quo, which makes it harder to make things happen or change our working practices.

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juliesarab · 13/10/2014 12:05

Gosh this sounds like me!!
Nothing consctructive to add other than - you are not alone!

LapsedTwentysomething · 15/10/2014 21:37

What about really directly contacting prospective employers? Despite cuts in finding and the prospect of redundancies in my LA, I secured myself a FT position purely byaking sure that the HT of the school I'm now working at knew I was available, and reminding her of that.

I was also in contact with the HT of another school, and annoyingly, after I'd already accepted my current job, he called to find our my availability (that's the job I particularly wanted).

Can you approach prospective employers speculatively? I appreciate that this might not be as straightforward in a specialised field.

ememem84 · 15/10/2014 21:55

Same position here. I'm looking but not actively iykwim. I have an "informal" chat tomorrow with a new company.

Hvr had a few interviews but nothing great. Am biding my time.

Re the dreading going in on Mondays just do it day by day. I hate it too at present. Trying to make Mondays more fun by doing something nice or having a nice dinner. Etc something to look forward to.

Kernowgal · 16/10/2014 17:59

Happy to report I just got a new job! Wasn't expecting them to offer it to me, but they did. A much better prospect and with lots of things to get involved in. Really pleased.

Lapsed - thank you for your advice though, it definitely works in my field too.

Hope you all find something more fulfilling soon.

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ememem84 · 16/10/2014 18:43

Well done!! I had a lunch today which has resulted in a 2nd interview!

Kernowgal · 17/10/2014 19:34

Excellent news!

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