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Head of department sent me rude email

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katykat5 · 11/05/2014 15:30

Hi, am looking for advice as I'm feeling quite upset at the moment.
Next week is due to be very busy at work and I have been asked to manage a huge workload on my own. The rest of the people in my department are not doing very much and I feel that the workload has not been spread out very evenly.

I emailed my head of department today clarifying a few things about next week and also asking if it was possible to have an extra person working with me for some of the day - this would not usually be a problem in my line of work.

I received a very rude, nasty email back. My head of department made the assumption that I'm stupid and can't follow instructions (she said something like "if you'd actually read the timetable I sent you last week, you'd know this already" and her whole tone was aggressive.)

I am quite angry and upset because in this email, she has spoken down to me like I'm a child and the whole tone is rude. I sent her a polite email with a few queries and I got this in return. I don't even want to go in tomorrow because she's so nasty. She is well known for being rude to people and not having good people skills but this doesn't excuse it.

I don't know what to do now. Should I email back, raise it with her tomorrow or just ignore it?

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DrankSangriaInThePark · 11/05/2014 15:33

Well, without further detail you are also making the assumption that she has made the assumption that you're stupid, no?

You can't just give us an isolated sentence from an email and expect us to agree with you that she was rude.

Do people in your line of work generally email back and forth on Sundays?

Why are you also assuming the others in your dept aren't doing anything much and you are doing it all?

You might be right, but unless you tell us more, we couldn't really say.

flowery · 11/05/2014 19:05

If she was rude to you then of course she shouldn't have been. What would he reaction be if you asked for a quick word tomorrow and said you understand completely what she was saying but felt she was a bit abrupt with you?

Any chance she might not have been impressed at being bothered on a Sunday about workload?

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