I know i do need to see a lawyer about this but wondered if anyone had any initial advice. I have had to lodge an official complaint at work for sexual harrassment against a colleague (including inappropriate touching, harassment over work email in work time, manipulation etc, all of which I have evidence of, and to boot it turns out he has previous convictions of a very serious nature, which i wasn't aware of, and in a sense it is not what the complaint is about, although it does lead to a wider matter of why he has not been monitored and why he is now in a management role). The "investigation" is taking forever and is being dealt with by our HR dept. Apparently just before i lodged my complaint, there was an edict given to the HR dept from above (I work for a large university) to not suspend anyone unless "absolutely" necessary as it was felt too many legal wrangles were happenning. So, the net result is he has not been suspended whilst this investigation is ongoing. I am being forced into situations, meetings, which he is running or participating in, and i don't wish to engage with him in any way. Another female colleague has also lodged a complaint, and she is in the same position as me, we are both finding it increasingly distressing and feel we have been "left" to just "deal with it" and put everything to oneside until the investigation is concluded. I have been very clear with HR in how distressing this is, and they do not respond. I have to deal with this man daily, knowing he is fully aware I have complained. There is more detail in that whenever HR have said "we will send you the papers by x date" or "we will be telling X about the complaint at x time on x date", they have repeatedly failed to meet the timelines they have set out to me, so i have had the added distress of sitting expecting something to happen, it doesn't, and i have to chase them.
In order to consult lawyers and take this to another level, do i have to wait for the complaints process to conclude, or can i just do it anyway??