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How can I get back in the groove without getting back in the rut?

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dunmopin · 02/02/2014 20:18

Could anyone advise me about this? Last year was tricky. Restructuring at work leading to close friends moving on. Periods of short staffing. Long hours working on a new project. Other non work stuff (bereavement). By December I was just plodding on. Had a 2 week break over Christmas, then this year, I’ve been finding it really hard to concentrate, put in the extra hours and reading I need to do. Today I did feel more hopeful and started to think about some work planning, but then got a feeling I realised was familiar – tense in my shoulders, arms and legs, tight across the chest. I realised that for at least the last year (except at the end when I was too tired) I’ve felt like that for pretty much most of the time. Come home from work and work, open wine, plan next steps. How can I get back on top of things without the tension (I think I/ my body is afraid, if that makes sense). Am I just not up to my job? I find my work interesting.

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vicks66 · 02/02/2014 23:13

Work can be interestin, fulfillin etc but its not the be all and end all. Can u climb into bed at nite and feel u'r happy? We all need friends, and mine are sadly lacking. I am happy in my marrriage but not not in my social life. My huband is 22 years older than me and we turning into derby and joan. I'm 47 and still want a bit of fun and a laugh. We can't always get every thin we want, but we can at least try

dunmopin · 03/02/2014 22:00

Thanks for replying, vicks. I get what you're saying, I know work isn't everything. I just feel if I could get my oomph back and get on top of things I could see more clearly what needs to happen in the rest of my life

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LilMissSunshine9 · 03/02/2014 22:46

Sounds like me for the past yr couldn't motivate myself and realised its because I wake up and can do it with my eyes closed so decided to get a new role which is more challenging. Scary but I am glad I did it. Maybe you need something new to reignite your oomph

vicks66 · 04/02/2014 10:12

I agree. Find diversions away from work. It is so easy to get stuck and get sucked down. Much harder to climb out, but surely the rewards are worth it. U will find gradually, u glow from inside, people will notice. U'll have other stuff to talk about and things to look forward to. I have to do things on my own as hubby generally not interested in the same things, but be brave, have courage and take a risk

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