My boss has been texting and calling me since my DS was 10 weeks old, initially, although I was a bit annoyed, it seemed like she was trying to be friendly and supportive (she has 2 kids herself and just came back from ML in August when her DD was 8 months), but as time's gone on I've now started to feel very pressured by her to give a definitive date of my RTW, even though I have until June. We met up in dec and I mentioned the possibility of coming back in April due to financial constraints but that I needed to sit down with DH to work out what we can afford to do. I also told her that I was feeling quite anxious about leaving DS in nursery at such a young age. Since then, we've worked out our finances and it turns out I can afford to stay off until June. My boss has been on my case again this week to send her a request for my return to work conditions so I've done so, letting her know I'm aiming to be back in June. I've had 2 arsey responses from her asking me why I've now changed my mind from April to June, even though I'd never said anything definitive about coming back in April. I'm already feeling guilty and anxious enough about going back, now she's making me feel guilty too and I'm dreading it even more!
Another thing worth mentioning is when we met up she told me I'd have to stop breastfeeding when I come back as there's only a disabled toilet to use to express milk! She fed her kids on formula after 2 months which is obviously totally up to her and I respect her decision to do so but I feel like she doesn't appreciate or respect the fact that I want to bf as long as possible.
Am I right to be feeling so annoyed or should I just suck it up?!