did not get a job - feel upset/ how to think rationally?

[charlottenina]

I went to interview and initially I thought it was not job for me. but as the interview progressed, I realised this would be a ideal job - local, part time hours. I think I gave the impression that I was not too keen on the job...and it was a mistake. feel so upset that i did not realise it earlier. Why I cannot see things through? why do I always come to conclusions too late? I decided to draw the plan what to do next...need to think rationally?

I learnt the same lesson as you many years ago. I let slip at interview that another job I was applying for was preferable to me, and I didn't get the job because they were worried I'd just leave as soon as I could.

Nowadays, I always appear very enthusiastic and engaged at interview, even if I'm only applying for the job because there's nothing better around. I do my homework on the company, ask relevant questions about what sort of work I would be doing etc etc. I confess I'm rather good at interviews now and usually get offered the job!

So my advice would be - to be enthusiastic, without going over the top. Make it sound like you've really thought about the job and what it would entail.

Just read that back - sounds like I've been for a lot of interviews in my time. Oh wait....I have .

I agree with stowsettler. Always approach every interview as if you really want the job. Even if something crops up during the interview that really puts you off you should stay as enthusiastic as you can. You can always say no if you get offered a job you don't want.

I agree - you have to treat every interview as if it's the only job you've ever wanted. Even if you're not particularly keen on the job, remember that interviews are two-way things - you're there to find out more about the job, too, and you can ask questions about aspects that concern you. If nothing else, it's a great opportunity to practice for the interview for the job you really do want in future.