Hi again, Thanks to the three of you for your help, as i said i am pretty clueless in all this so having some insight into what is involved is great. Scared and Baking, i glad you have both managed to resolve things, but sorry to hear what you've had to go through to get there.
My issues at work, briefly are as follows:
My shifts are constantly being changed without much notice and consideration for childcare etc, yet my boss makes allowances for others in the same job (we are all part time) to work around their other commitments- second jobs, college, childcare. more recently a new employee was given my shifts to allow her to keep her old job and work around her parents jobs so she can use them for childcare. i have been moved to shifts i cant do, i was insulted and laughed at when i questioned this. she assured me on several occassions that she would sort this out and i have over the last week asked several times and she did nothing then put me in as an unauthorised absence and dropped me below my contracted hours. i questioned this as i had given nearly three weeks notice about the shift and she did agree to fix it. she was awful to me about it.
i have beem asked to submit in writing that i cannot work on one particular day of the week (something i committed to outwith work on a day that was not in my regular shift pattern and had not been asked to work on in several months)- this in itself is not a problem but i the only one who has beem asked to do so.
on the rare occassions where i have called in sick, i have been harrassed either by phone or text to come into work regardless. more recently she bit.my head off and implied that i was lying about being ill.
there is alot more background but those are the main things that have brought this to a head.
i have been signed off work for the next two weeks now as i am not sleeping, have constant tension headaches, feel sick and either feel really down or really angry when im at home thinking about it.
i have felt for a while she is trying to push me out.
i don't have a particular goal- i dont want to leave but id like her to behave more professionally towards me and manage shifts properly. i want her boss to know that this is how she behaves.
i have done a sort of timeline of bullet points around one more detailed summary of the most recent issues which have brought this to a head. i think i will refine it, type it and email it to my rep for review before i send it to HR.
i'm worried about what happens in the meantime- we are a small branch of a big company so i do have to work fairly closely with her, i dread the atmosphere when i go back. i'm also worried that when i go back she will have kept me on the shifts i cant do as she has failed/refused to do anything until now, i dont know if i can face bringing it up again but will lose hours if i dont.
also, do i need to apply for sick pay or does that happen automatically? as far as i know its just statutory.
thanks so much to you all again.