Hi, i recently posted in AIBU (is my boss taking the piss out of me?) and was given some really good advice and support, one lady suggested i posted on here too.
I will try to keep from being long winded.
I have been in my job for six years, we work on a rota system which gives employees the same basic shift patterns but with extra shifts and swaps added to allow for employees who are off on holiday etc. The manager kept everyone's basic shifts the same each week and if cover was needed we were all asked where we could help out/ swap etc and for the most part everyone did the most they could and the system worked fine. My manager went on marernity leave two years ago and a new manager took over. since she started my basic shifts have changed several times, usually at short notice, and i have been messed about with regards to childcare and out of work commitments which i make around my basic shifts.
A new employee is due to join us in a couple of weeks, and the new rota went up last week. My manager has given my regular shifts to the new employee so that she can work this job and keep her other one and work around using her parents for childcare. I wouldn't have had any real objection to this but all of the shifts i have been moved to are impossible for me to do- no childcare, commitments i made around my old shifts which i cannot change now.
I asked for a meeting with manager and met with her on saturday morning on my day off. I explained the situation, why i was unhappy and enquired why new employee had all my shifts and why she moved me to shifts that i can't do (all staff filled in availabilty forms when she first started). She defended herself by saying that i accused her of favouring new employee (i did not) and saying that all other branches worked this way and if people said they couldnt do shifts they would get laughed at. When i asked how permanent the changes would be so that i could at least try and make arrangements and do some of what she had asked she refused to say and skirted around my questions. She also requested that i put in writing to HR why i could not do one shift in particular (son has swimming lessons, booked up and paid for till after christmas, i have no one else who can take him and they were booked on a day i previously did not work) despite other staff members having college commitments and other commitments with their children and never having to do this.
Basically, while i am willing to be flexible and always have been, most of these shifts i cannot do at all, some i could do but risk changimg all my childcare etc for her to swap everything again in a month or two. I have felt for a while jow that she is trying to make things awkward for me and push me out (she did this two at least two other staff though i have no proof) she is dismissive with me and makes me feel pressured when i try to discuss things with her and i feel it's unfair to accommodate the new staff member's needs without finding any middle ground for me, i feel that if the new staff member couldn't do the required shifts then she shouldnt have been given the job- especially as there were plenty of applicants.
In general my work is good, and i have a good relationship with other staff and supervisors, i even have a generally placid relationship with the manager both in and out of work so i dont underatand why she is targeting me.
sorry for this being so long winded, just wanted to give info so as not to drip feed later. i have contacted my union rep and waiting to get a telephone appointment with him. as yet i cannot findy copy of my contract but i have written all incidents amd details down so that they are clear in my head. i dont want to leave my job as there is nothing else in my area, so i have no intention of going down constructive dismissal route etc. i just want this to be dealt with fairly and professionally and my manager isnt doing that at all.
thanks if you have read it all
hope it makes sense.