Dm2 , Sorry I hadn't seen your posts. No I don't think you are unnatuarlly woorried about a childminder's ability to cope. Some are some are bad and some are very good and some very bad!
I, like Tigermoth says, never work to my full capacity, I like to be able to give each child the care, love cuddles and attention that they are due. I culd have 6, but I only have two at a time with a baby., and an range of ages is better, ie a baby a 2yr old and a 3yr old
If I take on a new baby, I always make sure that I am going to have enough time to spend just sitting cuddling the baby, playing pata cake, finger rhymes, stretching arms and singing games, talking to her on a one to one, time for her without the other children around by manipulating nap times etc. It is so important to have face to face contact and physical touch, it is all too easy to pop a baby in a bouncy chair and let her watch the others.
Ask a childminder if she has a treasure basket - a basket full of exciting tactile objects for the baby to explore at her own pace, contents vary, a shell, cork, sponge, keys, metal spoon , wooden spoon, cotton reel, velevet cloth, egg whisk(small) woollen ball, a lemon, fir cone, pebbles shaving brush, napkin ring , they can be changed and added to all the time. I could go on for ever!! But I think you get the idea!
This is to stimulate their developing senses and understanding, engage their interest and let them expore objects safely themselves. It is also fascinating to watch!
Heuristic play is so important for babies, they also need safe places to sit and roll, I feel very passionate about the amount of care that under ones get, they deserve the very best care possible. That's why I am very anti nursery for under 2's, I believe a baby is better off in the home environment for the first two years. I know a lot of people prefer the relative"safety" of a nursery, and also find it easier to hand their child over to a nursery as it it is more impersonal and the parent does not have to get too inviolved in the nursery and this in turn helps the guilt factor some parents feel about handing their child over. Some parents resent the affection childminders show to their children, they feel that the relationship can be too close, I know I have experienced it and since made sure that the people whose children I look after are secure with the fact that my whole family will be involved in their child's welfare and wellbeing.
I am lucky that the parent's of the childen I look after are highly delighted that their child stuggles away from them to come to my arms in the morning and barely waves goodbye,(they also don't want to go home! )but they know the child is secure, happy and contented, what more could they want!
Sorry for a long post, it is a subject as I said that I feel very passionate about. These children are our future and deserve the best care.