Mums of the world I have a problem... please help! I had two beautiful twin boys six months ago and it is now time for me to go back to work. I have just been offered a new job which I really want to take... problem is, they don't know I have children. I decided not to tell since when I mentioned it in previous applications and interviews I felt a cold wind blowing as soon as I did and - funnily enough - never heard back from them. The thing is, everyone in the small office where I'm due to be starting, seems really nice and obviously I want to be able to talk about my boys! If I say something now, will it look like I've been manipulative and backed them into a corner? Will it affect our working relationships? I would really appreciate any advice!