It's absolutely awful to be made redundant, and I know as it happened to me twice. First time I had 'the talk' with my manager, and he listed about 15 points why they were't going to offer me a contract next year. You can imagine how that made me feel...Much later I realised that 1. he was very shit at being a manager clearly. 2. he needed to justify to himself why he was doing this, so had made this big list of negative points, it was nothing to do with me being rubbish. 3. The 'sales targets' type job didn't fit me anyway, so he was right not to want me, really.
I took a 4 week break, just to recover, then started looking for a job that would better fit me. Guess what, within 3 months I had my dream job. At the interview I even told them why I had not had a follow-on contract. My new boss thought this was an advantage, as he had been afraid I was really turned on by sales targets and this new job was very different. I know it sounds impossible where you are at now, but who knows what can happen in 3 months?
The next time I saw it coming. At 'the talk' I interrupted my manager. Told him 'I know you have to do this. But look I need to get on from here, with confidence to do the next thing. Would you be able to focus on the things I did do well, so that will help me in my next steps.' And he understood and did. It worked much better. It still was a blow to be the one having to leave. I now work for myself, partly because I couldn't face being out there fighting for a job again. Little did I know working for yourself is an ongoing job interview (-;. I do love it though, and I know it would have never happened, had I not been made redundant.
One door closes, others open. It's not how you feel now. It just isn't. Give yourself a break, some time to 'grieve'. Then move on when you can, to the next big thing. The new you!