Hi, can someone please help me make sense of my current work situation.
I have been with the NHS for 9 years.
3 Years ago I got a post very close to home (10 minute walk) because the commute with children became difficult.
At the moment I work flexible hours which means that my husband is able to drop children to childcare whilst i start early (730) he drops the car off for me and I work my full hours and collect children. Hence I am bale to work a full time week.
Just been announced that my job is to be relocated 40 miles away. 99.9% certain but there will be a "consultation period" - seems a little like lip service as the manager in other location has already been asked by director to find me a desk. 
so my question is this. Its almost impossible for me to go to new location, the added fuel expense (ive worked it out at around 320 a month) and the need to reduce my hours to drop kids off in morning and be back in time for kids in evening means that I will only really be able to be working 25 hours a week.
What are my options? ive been told - i feel quite unreasonably to:
a) buy another car so husband can continue to drop children. (which is an expense we cant afford with 2 kids in full time childcare
b) suck it and see 
c) resign....
Can anyone help guide me? sorry for long post but I wanted to get as much info in as possible.
Thank u.