I am just looking for advice really and a bit of a chance to vent as I am totally stressing out.
I went on maternity leave last October....and have been planning to return to work in October this year since the beginning as DS1 starts school in September and I wanted to spend a few weeks getting him settled in.
My work (who are a large national organisation) were aware of my plans, however to make everything official I met with my line manager and a rep from HR to discuss my return to work on 3rd August.
At the meeting I stated that if possible I wanted to slightly reduce my hours (by 4 hours per week) and change from 4 days per week to 3 to fit around the childcare we have available and so that DH and I could take and pick up DS1 from school. The hours I was requesting to do were all worked out so that we could manage the childcare for both DS1 and DS2.
My line manager at the time said that it shouldnt be a problem but that it would need to be signed off by the regional manager. Assuming this was all ok it was agreed that I would return to work on 1st Sept at my original hours and take four weeks holiday which I am owed...I would then start back in the office physically on the 1st Oct at which point my hours would reduce to the requested amount.
I have not heard anything back but when i was in the office last week my LM mentioned that he had not heard anything back from the regional manager other than her saying that she didnt think the changes were mutually beneficial. He said he would chase her up and came back to me earlier in the week to say that she has referred it onto HR despite him telling her that it is her decision to make.
I responded by saying that it was technically only a week till my return to work (although I am then on AL for 4 weeks) and that I would appreciate it if he could chase it up. He today came back saying that my return on 1st Sept was sorted and it was only the hours that need to be confirmed....kind of seemed a bit snippy (he leaves the company next week and so I think he is seeing this as a bit of a hinderance to him)
I have now responded again by saying that if my change in hours is for any reason not approved then I will need to have time to find alternative suitable childcare. This is something that concerns me as I can not assume that my normal and preferred childminder would have space to take DS2 for the extra hours. If she can't have him I would then need to find someone else that we are happy to leave DS2 with which really could be difficult at such short notice.
I would also then need to arrange for someone to take and collect DS1 from school as I already know my childminder is unable to do this.
Sorry for the mammoth post...I am really stressing about it all now though as I am not sure how we would afford the childcare if they deny the change in hours and am now just wondering what my rights are legally especially considering they have me returning on the 1st sept under the assumption that there shouldnt be any problem in changing my hours? Any advice is appreciated :)