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Boss taken day off as holiday when i was in hospital having cervical ablation operation...where do i stand?

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zara206y · 03/08/2012 10:18

Had surgery on Wednesday for cervical ablation, was off sick thursday due to GA (for which i phoned boss from hospital to tell him i wouldnt be in as was still in hospital at 10pm) and thought i better go back to work today. Boss was out playing golf, i felt like crap but made it in only to find that he has taken a day off me for wednesday! I was upset and gutted. I do so much running around for the company doing trips to shop for tea coffee, etc and i was stunned. He knows time is precious for me being a single parent. SO....i told his arogant 21 year old son who also works for company that i was not feeling great and needed to go home. He said stroppily oh well i will have to call my dad and tell him then. (His son treats me like shit when his dad is not there). I told him that i would inform his father. I am now at home layed on sofa, very uncomfortable, stomach cramps and feel fuzzy headed. Hospital said i can sign myself off for few days as normal, but i always feel bad taking time off. I am always at work early too, never late. So what i want to know is can i challenge my boss on getting this day back? Can he actually book me as being on holiday when i was in theatre all morning? I am so upset i feel much worse now. Wish i never got up this morning to make the effort to go in.

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hlipop · 03/08/2012 13:24

surely you can get a sick note from the hospital saying you where not able to go into work as having an operation?? and if they have advised days off get them to give you a note to this effect too/visit your gp for one....

take it easy and try not to worry too much

Morph2 · 04/08/2012 20:52

do you get paid for sick time off?

At our work you don't until you have been there 2 years (SSP only before then). Often people that are off sick and not entitled to sick pay take as holiday as they don't want to lose the money

edam · 04/08/2012 20:55

For heaven's sake, what is wrong with these people?! How outrageous. Have a look on directgov.uk under the employment section, or on the ACAS website - you have a legal right to time off work for sickness (although they don't have to offer you anything over and above statutory sick pay).

Morph2 · 05/08/2012 07:33

Edam>> SSP pay you don't get anything for the first few days though i think, hence why people at my work sometimes take as holiday.

edam · 05/08/2012 11:11

OK, I can understand people preferring to take holiday, but that doesn't excuse Zara's employer.

Rockchick1984 · 05/08/2012 11:26

It sounds like he was actually trying to help - you don't get paid anything for the first 3 days of absence if you are only eligible for SSP. So you would have basically had to take the time off unpaid. I would presume your boss thought this was a way to ensure you get full pay - certainly challenge him about it but be prepared that you may end up with the holidays back, but out of pocket!

zara206y · 05/08/2012 14:28

Hey guys thanks for all the messages......yes i think that its best i just accept it. Money is tight as a single mum so better to have it than not. But i have lost a day off with my son and its a struggle to grab time off with only 4 wks a year hols. I just think that i wont go out of my way so much at work now, like i do. I was gutted but i guess its his business after all and all he thinks about is himself. I will however comment that it wasnt such a great holiday in the operating theatre! I may also consider not making so much effort to get into work from now on. I havent been well for a year and this is the first time i was off, i have struggled so much but still gone in....that may change!!!

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