Just wanted to know if anyone has Goy a result for constructive dismissal and how they went about it? I have posted before about work issues and I genuinely feel I am being pushed out, but cannot afford to resign as I have a 2 year old DC and cannot afford to lose money (work shifts on reasonable money so minimal childcare costs) and although I assume I would have no issues finding alternative employment I am risking out income dropping to an unmanageable extent.
Essentially I believe there is a witch hunt occurring and I am being picked apart by my second line manager. He is taking me to a formal meeting about my attendance (had 12 weeks off with documented work related stress) and performance.
Been on various action plans for around a year and genuinely believed that I had improved over the last three months - no negative feedback from anything, positive emails about my performance from colleagues received by myself etc so completely devastated to hear that they are taking the first step to formal disciplinary procedures.
My GP is next to useless as I went to him to let him know that I couldn't go on and he said my reaction was 'normal' and prescribed me some beta blockers to get me through the disciplinary. I feel so lost because I have been
Giving my everything to the job, and I feel like its all worthless now and what's the point!
They have made me so anxious and depressed and my home life is suffering - DS is 2 and he is winding me up just by breathing, my DP doesn't get it and I can't bring myself to show any emotion/affection because I just feel so hollow. I always thought I was good at my job, did it for the love of helping people and now I feel like I am worthless and I just genuinely cannot see the point in it at all. If it wasn't for the financial pitfalls I would just resign because it's making me ill and they genuinely dont care!
Naming issues that I have such as putting a swear word on fb as disrespecting my colleagues (wasn't aimed at them and don't have details of my job on there) and instead of discussing any issues in a timely manner waiting for three months to bring them up (for example, a piece of my work ended up in a colleagues tray - three months later I am asked why I didn't hand it over properly when that was never the intention) and its literally destroying my life.
What do I need to do? My disciplinary is this Thursday.