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Do you think it's possible to dislike your boss

14 replies

virgil · 29/04/2012 22:41

But stay in your job long term?

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flowery · 29/04/2012 22:56

No. Or not happily anyway. The relationship with your boss is so fundamental and colours your experience of a workplace and role so much that if the relationship is not good you are never going to be happy there long-term. For me, respect for the person managing me/directing the organisation is very important. I'm my own boss now... Grin

Is this you? Tricky boss?

scummymummy · 29/04/2012 22:58

Possible but not ideal.

blueshoes · 29/04/2012 23:27

Take heart. Bosses come and go too.

If there are other aspects of the job that make it worthwhile, worth swallowing bile in the short term.

boarding · 29/04/2012 23:33

no

lisaro · 29/04/2012 23:40

Yes, of course it's possible if you're both professional at work but it makes it much harder at times.

HateBeingCantDoUpMyJeans · 30/04/2012 20:34

Dislike as a person or not respect as a boss? Yes to tge first, no to the second.

fedupwithdeployment · 04/05/2012 15:15

No. Having said that I have worked under a useless lazy incompetent idiot for some 2 years...however, I am actively looking for a new job.

EnsignRo · 04/05/2012 15:19

It's possible, for I am doing it. Not ideal but if the pros of the job outweigh the cons (definitely do for me) then I think it's possible. I've even developed a sort of respect for them over time.

maggiethecat · 04/05/2012 15:59

have had that and the person was foul but the professional was fair, good at her job etc. I could not have stood it long term as the personality was too much to bear.

KenDoddsDadsDog · 04/05/2012 16:02

My boss is utterly foul. Have put up with it for a long long time. But now I'm off. Byeeeee

O2BNormal · 04/05/2012 16:02

I have worked for bullying types who I didn't like, but learned to manage, which was not great, but OK.

It probably depends if the boss is someone you have contact with daily or a head of department type you only see at team meetings etc.

nickelhasababy · 04/05/2012 16:03

no, i don't think it's possible.

you'd be miserable.

it might work if your boss moved on or got promoted away from being your boss.

notcitrus · 04/05/2012 16:19

I've found I prefer a good manager who I don't necessarily like, to someone who's a nice person but a crap manager. The latter would be preferable as a next door neighbour, though.

Does depend on how severe the dislike is and how much contact you have to have with them and how much independence they give you. I had one I didn't like but as only saw them for under five minutes a week it was fine, whereas if they're sitting next to you for 8 hours a day even a minor irritating trait makes you want to murder them!

BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 04/05/2012 16:51

I agree with citrus. I'd rather have a good manager than a nice manager who isn't as good a manager. It's a definite skill.

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