I've recently notified my employer that as a father I wish to take 2 months off as Additional Paternity Leave. I was under the impression that the mother gets 52 weeks maternity leave, paid until 39 weeks and then the rest is unpaid. My wife has decided to go back to week after 39 weeks and we believed I was entitled to have the rest of the maternity leave transferred to myself as unpaid Additional Paternity Leave. As far as I can see I tick all the boxes where it comes to qualifying for this policy (worked for them over 5 years, will be caring for the child, gave them correct notice etc). However, my employer has said that maternity leave is only 39 weeks and anything after that has to go the mother and the father doesn't have any right to APL unless it is within the 39 weeks.
I'm sure it is relatively new law and was convinced that a father could take up to 26 weeks APL if the mother had gone back to work. I've searched the direct.gov website and couldn't really find anything concrete to support my understanding of the law. Has anyone taken APL? Any advice on this legalisation?