This is my first post here and I apologise as it might be long. I was recommended to come over here from a mum on another (twins) forum I go on.
I have 8 yr old twin boys and a 1.5yr daughter. I suffered with severe PND after the birth of my boys and took 1 years unpaid leave to deal with their health issues and to give me time to recover.
I was diagnosed with PND in September 2011. About 2 weeks after I returned to work from 11 months Maternity Leave. I work 19 hours a week for the NHS. I went off sick in the middle of October and as my condition continued to deteriorate. Before I went off sick I went to see my occupational Health Department to advise them of my condition.
I have now been off work for 5 months. In that time the care package that was put into place by my GP has failed to happen due to a catalogue of mistakes and slip ups, none of which are my fault.
I was issued with a formal meeting request to discuss my on going sickness and plans to return at the beginning of Feb with my line manager and an HR rep. I attended this meeting and explained the failings in care and the expectation that the care package was due to be put into place within a couple of weeks and that once this has happened I would feel more able to return to work. Once again the care package failed to happen as the CPN was off sick and I was to wait for her return.
I was called to a second capability meeting at the beginning of March to discuss again sickness and plans to return to work. It was explained that if I fail to return to work at the end of my current sick note I will be called for another meeting to arrange a stage 3 capability hearing ending ultimately in dismissal on ground of ill health.
I am not ready to return to work and yet I do not want to lose my job. I am not a union member and have spoken to ACAS who told me that this is standard. I feel I am being pressurised into returning back to work. I still have recieved none of the support that my GP wishes me to have and now due to budget cutbacks within the NHS the original offer of support can no longer be offered and I have to return to my GP to see where I can go next.
So basically I have waited and waited while near my rock bottom for support from the NHS and because this has not happened, I am no further on with my recovery and now I look to lose my job in the NHS.....I guess thats one way they can save money?!
What can I do?