Regretting booking it now but several months ago said I would join DM on a trip organised through her work as none of her friends were free and she sounded really down about it (to an event she's always wanted to visit). Due to the distance between us it will take six days, although the trip is only four, as I need to go to my parents' and back.
I'm recently unemployed (course finished last week) and am job hunting with a vengeance. I'm trying to break into a specific industry so looking at any kind of job in that area as I have little experience. Most jobs that I am qualified for (due to no experience) are agency-type placements for shift work.
The trip is in May. When is an appropriate time to mention this please - should I call before I apply and ask? How is the best way to phrase it please? Not had to do this before (always had student jobs where holidays were, more or less, flexible) and I don't want to ruin my chances of getting something. I also don't want to sound like a drip (have a feeling 'my Mum booked me this holiday' does carry an air of that...).
It'll be my birthday present, if that makes any difference as to the best phrasing. I thought using that would be more sympathetically received?
I can't cancel the trip as I've invested money (that I don't have) in it and my DM would be devastated, as well as losing her money (she paid half).