Please excuse the long post, but I want to give a little background for my query.
I work for a small ish company (20 people) and hope to become pregnant towards the end of this year.
They are a lovely company to work for and there is a nice atmosphere in the office. I am paid well and lucky enough to receive a bonus too. However in terms of entitlements we are only given them bare minimum. For example - just statutory holidays (freely given but no chance of an increase no matter how long you've worked here).
There is no maternity policy. It was a company started by men and there are only two women (including myself) working here. They're not anti-women, there have been others but they have left for various reasons.
The other lady working here took maternity leave but she had only been working for the company for 5-6 months when she gave birth so I don't believe she would have been entitled to maternity pay? (I haven't asked her so I may be wrong).
When I started here I asked the external HR consultant (no internal HR dept) about putting a maternity policy together. I was compiling a company handbook and was asking for that rather than it being a pointed request. At the time (2 years ago) he said his advice to the company would be that they only provide statutory maternity and that a "return to work" incentive bonus is paid after a certain number of months of the member of staff in question returning to work.
Personally, I would feel more morally obligated to return to work if they had paid me maternity leave above the statutory rather than being tempted by the return to work incentive bonus. Having said that, the "return to work" incentive bonus is not official. It is only what the HR consultant suggested to me when I spoke to him.
So after that long background.. my question is this. Should I say to them that I hope to become pregnant later this year and ask about a potential maternity policy or would I be potentially shooting myself in the foot. Should I keep my mouth shut until (if) I'm lucky enough to fall pregnant and speak to them then?
I should also add that the other lady that took maternity leave is my boss, so I can't ask her and hope she'll keep it a secret.
They are very fair, and generous with salaries but quite tight about "extras/entitlements".
Thank you!