I started a new part time job in November last year for a relatively small company - 30 odd employees. I stated on my application form when I started that I have bipolar disorder which, at the time, was relatively well controlled with medication.
Unfortunately in December my mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer and she sadly died end of January. I had a few days off before she died, as we knew she'd only days left and I took time off until after the funeral (a sick note was provided for this, although they didn't pay me SSP).
I went back for a week and a half and was really struggling. My mood, due to my bipolar and obviously the loss of my mum, was horrendously unstable. I kept my line manager informed, was in regular contact with the mental health team and took two weeks off work and again a sick note was provided.
I went back a week and a half ago and have pretty much worked by backside off since then trying to get on top of things. Today the owner of the company told me in no uncertain terms that I wasn't to have anymore time off sick.
Currently my mental health is still pretty unstable but whilst I'm able to work I want to. I can't, however, guarantee that I'm going to be well enough for work from here on in. All I can say is that I'm not planning anymore time off.
I'm still in my probationary period but even so, can they sack me for being off sick? I'd do anything for things to be different but I can't control my mental health anymore than I could control my mum getting ill and dying.
I like my job and think, given the chance, I can do well but now I've got this hanging over me. Any advice gratefully received.