I work in care with violent adults and everyone (with a few exceptions due to personal circumstances) are expected to do sleepovers . I was off work with stress at the begunnin of the year due to a particularly bad attack - never been affected like this before . Now I am pregnant my boss is saying I still need to do sleepovers when i feel that not only the physical risk is high but the emotional stress I would be under is too high . She has known of my pregnancy for over two weeks and there had still not been any move to do my risk assessment so I phoned her today to ask er about it and explain I was worried about the sleepover . She basically said I was wrong in that there is not a risk and she is the boss and she makes the decision . She hung up on me before I even got to tell her my gp is very concerned that there is even a question of whether I am doing them or not . I know I should go to hr but I'm scared I make it worse for myself .