I think I'm ready to go back to work after an illness.
I need to take it really slowly though, and I also have one child in school and a tinier one in part time nursery, as well as an OU course, so I think something really casual would be a good idea - the kind of thing where I can do a couple of shifts a week if well, but not get in trouble if I need time off to stop myself getting ill again or to do an essay etc.
I've done 5 years care work (elderly and learning disabilities - I can do lifting, basic sign language, personal hygiene, toiletting etc - or at least I could do them 4 years ago) as well as 4 years admin style stuff and 3 years customer facing, with tills, phone, complaints etc. I have run teams of up to 20 people doing sales for about a year, and am excellent at sales, although I have to be careful with that as I need to avoid stress and I tend to get a bit too excited. I have done 1 year bar and waiting on, as well as six months bar in a nightclub. I have also run my own small business, and have done activities with the elderly, public libraries and things like storytime etc. I am studying social sciences and do quite a lot of arts, crafts and writing on the side, as well as running a pretty successful website, including managing over 30 volunteer writers. (some of these things overlap - they sound exciting but were all minimum wage unqualified type things. Said sales experience does mean that I am shit hot at interviews though)
Now, given that I really have to avoid stress, night shifts, getting too tired, etc, until I get stronger, but I need to ease myself back into work to get stronger (as well as to stop us being quite so damn skint) what would you say is a good plan of action? How do I explain my reluctance to do more shifts - I don't want to reveal my health issues if I don't have to as mental health discrimination is a big deal.
Ideally, anything would fit in either school time or after DH is home from work (he works pretty much any day of the week he is needed, getting home between 5.30 and 6pm) but the ILs are amazing and could help out if really needed.