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Ispywith · 31/01/2012 21:52

Basically I work within the NHS and because of all the cuts we have to do 13 hour shifts. Was OK at first as this meant I had more time at home with the kids. Fast forward a few months and it is really beginning to take its toll. I only do 22.5 hours a week but this week have done 34 hours on 3 days straight (one of them oncall - and was called to the hospital - still had to finish off the 13 hour shift and return again next day for the same). Not sure why I am writing this, maybe others are experiencing this. I feel totally exhausted and I am miserable to my kids and DP. The extra time I get off for squeezing all the work into a short period is spent recovering!

Could also be this time of year as a have had illness after illness! Anyone else do the same? I have two small children and quite a few money worries (not terrible but enough to make me worry!) Any other over worked NHS workers out there or have any ideas how to survive!! Really thinking whether this is for me or if I can keep this pace up for another 30 odd years. Sad as I love the actual job but now so tired sometimes loose sight of this.....

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doubletrouble9 · 06/02/2012 11:28

I know how you are feeling I too have a stressful full time job with two young uns and when i returned i just kept going kept going until the boss had a jibe at me for trivia and so i thought to hell with it and i am off with stress. I'm not in favour of this action but the time out has really enabled me to evaluate things and more and more i want to stay at home and watch my children grow. In a few yrs I'll be doing the school run and then I want to be there to drop them off, pick them up etc. I'm an older mum at 41 and who knows when my time is up. I have always been a career person and when you are like that it is difficult to shift gears and think about being a mummy. But shift your gears you must otherwise I think will will regret the lost time with our kids more than the gained time at work. Do we really think we will look back and say darn these kids i really loved that job i had to leave?

flyingheart · 10/02/2012 09:24

I am a full time teacher and my dd is in nursery. I have just hit a wall and have been signed off sick for a week. I was I'll with fever for a few days and tried to return to work but could not handle the pace. I used to give my all to work but now I am starting to resent it because it leaves me stressed, tired and washed out.

What is really important to you? I can assure you that in your dotage you will not be sitting in that rocking chair wishing you had worked more. Cut yourself some slack, take a deep breath and do something to better your situation.

I too will follow that advice...it's tough but you need to be a happy mum not a washed out thinly spread one!

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