I think I am being bullied

[wearymama]

At work my colleagues are horrible. Im not being paranoid they hate me! I honestly really haven't done anything. Im a nice person. Im not sure whether its because i have mental health struggles??

I don't go on facebook but apparently there is a group on there which is where they discuss me and say horrible things.

They say I am shit at my job but i really try hard to please everyone. I only want to earn a living for my little family.

Im in pieces here, can't sleep, can't eat. Today my little girl said why is mummy sad?

Why is this happening to me I feel like i am reliving my horrific teens years all over again.

They won't tell me what i have done, but just snidy digs. I feel sick how can people hate me when I haven't done anything wrong.

Falling apart

How do you know they discuss you? If someone told you I would question their motivation for doing so.

Make a diary of every incident, put dates andtimes in it, and if there are any witnesses to the events. Get someone to go on Fbook for you and print out if possilbe gthe comments about you. When you have some evidence, go to your Human Resources manager if you don't have one, go to your senior manager, and tell them that you are feeling bullied, unhappy, and stressed by the way you feel work colleagues are behaving towards you and you are putting in a formal grievance. They will have to investigate your complaint. Alternatively, go to the HR manager tomorow and ask for a mediator to come in (external if possible, it's better if they are independent) and get you all together. A good mediator can work with groups and achieve great results. best of luck

Anyone else looking at this and the mediation thread and thinking they're connected?

Remember bullies are cowrds