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Beginnning to HATE HATE HATE my job and feel sick all the time.

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wine0 · 23/10/2011 06:55

I am a teacher and have been for around 10 years. I've always loved my job and have enjoyed making a difference through teaching. Our previous head left in Summer and our new head started in september.

She is a real ball-braker. Has already found weaknesses in TAs and is already doing what she can to get them out. Although i've always had good observations and my teaching as always been ok i am feeling under immense pressure to dot every single i and cross every single t which in teaching i find absolutely impossible. My inbox is just never ending and i feel like im drowning.

We as teachers have had huge amounts of pressure put on us and i spend hours and hours out of school hours working as well as bringing up 2 children and running our family home.

My half term will consist of working for most of it and getting stressed about the next half term.

I know if her previous school she 'goit rid' of several staff on competancy and had a couple on longterm sick when she left.

She makes me very very anxious and i don't trust her at all. She has made it quite clear that she stands for nothing and her ONLY priority is results and the children.

Although nothing yet has happened already some teachers are brown nosing and its working whillst the rest of us are plodding on waiting for the stab in the back. She's already had people in (including myself) to talk to and make clear that if we are not with her we are against her. I know that because of the job teaching is it would be easy for her to start picking at little things and making holes into everything in order to get you on competancy.

I've just finished for half term and instead of relacing about my impending weeks break i'm feeling sick, not being able to sleep.

I would love to just hand my notice in but financially this just isn't possible. I'm not sure really what i'm expecting from this but i'm just so unhappy after 10years of a wonderful head to have it replaced with this uncompasionate woman.

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An0therName · 26/10/2011 20:28

and even a full time job with a nice supportive head would be probably be better for you and your family than where you are now -

wine0 · 03/12/2011 05:50

After taking stock during the October half term and doing a lot of soul searching i began looking for a new job. I knew i wouldn't be able to continue working for this woman. After 2 applications, 1 interview i have got a new job. I am extremely happy and am now looking forward to christmas with my family and a new chapter in my life. I just wanted to thank everyone for you support and advice. At the time of writing my original post i was extremely low and not in a good place.

Lots of things have continued to happen over the past few weeks but nothing aimed at me but towards lovely friends and colleagues of mine. I hope they too can get out before she strips them of confidence and well-being.

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Slightlytinsellyexpat · 03/12/2011 06:22

Well done! A teacher friend of mine was nearly broken by a similar situation to yours. Have a happier Christmas and New Year now. Xmas Smile

hairytaleofnewyork · 03/12/2011 08:10

When I've had a boss like this and felt this stressed I've gone all out to find a new job. I know the job Market is not easy right now, bit no job is worth this stress and I'd be doing everything possible to find a new one - at least you'll feel more in control then.

hairytaleofnewyork · 03/12/2011 08:11

Whoops. Well done. I completely missed the end of the story!

BerylStreep · 06/12/2011 16:50

What a great result. Good luck with the new job. Is it still PT teaching? When do you start? Have you handed in your notice yet?

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