Disillusioned after ML

[krispykreme11]

I've been back at work for the last two months and despite the great fanfare when I returned, I'm starting to feel lost and depressed. Doesn't help that I no longer sit with my friends anymore (sorry that sounds so childish) and I'm in an area that is very quiet with hardly any staff around.

I work in public sector and although hours are great, I don't feel like I'm engaged anymore. My manager is useless and I've had to initiate meetings to discuss personal objectives...one of my colleagues basically said when you have a baby you become a second class citizen and it certainly feels this way as I'm doing odd bits and pieces.

Should I start looking elsewhere or will it get better? I did feel this way when I left my old company after maternity leave so will this feeling pass?

Should I start looking for a new job?

Sorry all these questions, if anyone has any uplifting advice, particularly careers advice I'd be really greatful....

It sounds like you need a bit more company around you. Nothing wrong with that. I'm the opposite in preferring to work on my own! We're all different.

Is there anything else available in your organisation?

I would fight nail and tooth to stay in public sector if I were you. Generally, private companies are very family unfriendly so jumping ship could potentially cause you even more problems.

I'm sure someone else will be along shortly to offer some good advice.

Thanks Speckledeggy, agree that public sector is definitely the preferable option but just very frustrated. Today was awful, hardly anyone in, just making me feel sad all the time...I now dread going into work.

Hey Krispykreme11
I think you should stick it out. Have a look round and see if there are other teams you can do a sideways move to? Maybe also see if there are work-based networks you can join, where you will get companionship and the opportunity to chat more generally about work? Is there a women's network or a new mums' network in the organisation?

Things can change a lot when you are away for a short time, leaving you feeling out of the loop. The public sector has undergone trememdnous shocks in the last few months. Maybe as time passes you will become one of the team again.

Good luck!

Thanks Politixmum, have had a productive meeting with my manager and joined a new mum network at work. Still feel a bit lost but things are improving.