Long term regular here but don't want to out myself.
Letter given to me today. Meeting next week. Only me to be made redundant in my dept and not aware of any other redundancies elsewhere in the company. Apparently I scored less on the selection criteria than my only other eligible colleague (fwiw I think boss started with the scores and then fitted them into the selection criteria).
Letter said that if redundancy is confirmed I'd get notice period plus 6 weeks net pay. That is very little and as a single parent I am absolutely screwed.
Can any HR bod advise me the time frame? Is it 30 days from meeting next week for consultation and then they will give me a letter telling me there is no other job or could it be sooner?
Also with regard to the meeting. I assume I argue why I shouldn't be made redundant but am I also expected to discuss proposed redundancy package at that meeting?
Background boss is a bully and keen to get me out. Very aggressive (has been warned by HR) and fond of a long boozy lunch. Head of dept and boss were disciplined last year for a work matter and I reckon they hold me responsible for it (I wasn't disciplined as unlike them I followed procedure - which if I hadn't probably wouldn't have resulted in them being disciplined).
I can't see the point in fighting to keep my job as I can't imagine how I'd be able to work there (small dept) but I am keen to maximise any settlement.
Any tips on what I should do would be much appreciated. I've already had to tell ds that he will most likely have to move schools and we will have to move houses as financially I have no clue how we will manage.
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Thanks.