Hubby has the option of voluntary redundancy, he would get about £20K. He plans to take a year out, be a SAHD (whilst I work full time) and then look for something locally (at the moment commutes one hour each way). I think it's a great idea in one way, he loves being with the kids, they adore spending time with him, I would get to focus on my job for 12 months (love my job, am happy working mum). Only thing worrying me is how hard will it be for him to get another job in 12 months? It's hard enough now, is it really worth giving up a steady, stable job for a year with the kids? Or is life too short not to? In a years time all children will be at school, we'll never get this time back? What do you think?