I am pg with baby no.2. due in Aug. I have a 16 month old. I have been back pt since Sept. It has been fine, classes fine, no issues etc, no time off.
However, after I had first baby my HOD was really awful about me behind my back and the principal betrayed my trust with something. Sorry about vagueness but don't want to be identified. I have since confronted HOD who didn't deny or apologize.
To cut a long story short I am really scared and anxious about telling them I am pg again. I am also still really angry about what went on and feel like I want to email HOD and Principal rather than seeing them in person as I don't want to share wonderful news person to person with two people who I don't remotely trust or care for.
On the other hand, my practical side says I should be nice as pie and tell them face to face and be as lovely and jolly as I can be so that they have no 'ammo' to use against me.
It is so disappointing to find people you thought were supportive and told you as much, totally change their tune once you actually start the family you have longed for.
Any advice gratefully received.