So, in the past year I've been made redundant and have had 2 miscarriages. I've recovered well from all this but it's got me thinking. I've decided that I don't want to have children just yet and I want to retrain... as a barrister.
Background - I'm 28; I have 4 A's at A Level and a 2.1 from Oxford (a middling one- my grandmother was terminally ill and I was suffering from depression in my final year). I also have 6.5 years work experience - split equally between the private sector and the Civil Service. I have always been really interested in the law - read up on cases, taken projects at work with a legal element etc. I enjoy the work I am doing at the moment - but long term I don't think it's going to provide me with the intellectual stimulation or general challenge I'm looking for. DH and I have had a long chat and he's told me to go for it. I am shaking with excitement!
Just wondering if anyone else had made this change, and how it worked for them. In particular if anyone did the GDL part time, which is my current plan: partly for financial reasons but also because becoming a barrister is fairly high risk so I want to have a good career history to fall back on if I need to.
We mentioned this to family on Boxing Day - my mother is over the moon, but everyone else was fairly dismissive. One DSis said I was too old to succeed at it, and MIL said that I was being selfish. Both responses made me feel a bit
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Any thoughts on how I can make this work appreciated...