Just had a bit of a bombshell from good old HMRC. I called to update my DH income for this tax year, as he's self-employed and it varies a lot. So I get the usual Amended Award notice and it gives us a predicted award figure for next year of about £150, £500 less than we've received each month this year. Turns out this year's award was based on last year's figures, when I was on maternity leave and DH was in first year of self-employment having been made redundant at this time last year! With nursery fees of £1200 per month, there's no way it's worth me working if this is accurate. The figure's just won't stack up!
The thing is, at the moment we as a family are a net gain to the tax coffers, as although one of our tax contributions equals pretty much what is returned to us in tax credits, the other is money in society's pot. If I quit work (and it will be me, not DH...) I'll make no contribution at all and be a financial burden needing unemployment benefit of some kind from the state. Lose, lose, right?
Has anyone else had this scare and had it all work out? I love my job, but I can't work at a loss!

sad, but still festive